Heart Based Therapy
My joy as a therapist of 40-plus years is in facilitating opening of the heart and the subsequent unfolding into the deep recesses of one’s true inner being, the human soul, with all its loving and creative potential. Childhood neglect and or abuse, adult losses, addictions, grief, and trauma, when understood with compassion, begin to open our hearts.
Love, joy, creativity, spontaneity, curiosity, and enthusiasm about life are often compromised when one has not experienced sufficient openhearted acceptance, particularly in the formative years of childhood. Our hearts and souls contract and we develop defense mechanisms which allow us to function and to cope, but all too often, paradoxically, also keep at bay our deepest dreams and longings.
The self-esteem generated through therapy allows our creativity to come into bloom with our partner, children, family, and friends. Our work is infused with new life, and our true vocations are realized. Stymied creativity is released, allowing us the fulfillment of our thwarted dreams.
Our psyche (our inner being) naturally knows where to go inside to heal when it feels enough acceptance and safety to explore our interior life.
This world must be felt and addressed to bring liberation from being run by our past. Dreams become more accessible. I use art therapy, active imagination, journaling and dreams as tools to explore our inner landscapes.
Along the journey we build emotional muscle as we come to terms with our losses. This allows us to reclaim lost parts of ourselves, which can then be integrated into a more whole experience of being human.
As we gain strength in our inner, feeling world, we process deeper and deeper through our own darkness and light, which brings integration and wholeness, and unleashes joy, love and fulfillment.